Episode 66

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1st Jan 2025

IGNITE YOUR INNER HEART FLAME, FROM CREATIVE DESERT TO UNAPOLOGETIC MAGNETISM WITH SOMATIC & SEXUALITY COACH WHITNEY ULLOM (66)

In this episode, I had the pleasure of meeting Whitney, a Sex, Love, and Relationship coach with a rich background in somatic trauma resolution work, theatre, and performing art.

Our conversation circles around Spirituality, Healing, and Creative Fire

We dive deep into the concept of a "spiritual drought" and the creative desert many women experience after decades of "following society's to-do list". Whitney shares her own journey and the significant role of sexuality in personal and spiritual transformation.

We touch on the importance of pleasure, self-love, and the powerful impact of acknowledging and expressing repressed emotions.

Throughout the episode, we discuss the intersection of business, motherhood, and the vital need to tap into one's creative fire, emphasizing the importance of nurturing the soul to achieve holistic well-being.

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MEET WHITNEY:

Whitney Ullom is a somatic sexuality coach, trauma resolution practitioner, and artist. Her work centers around the female body and soul, supporting women in healing from trauma, stepping into their power and agency, and awakening to their pleasure and creative genius.

She works 1:1 with both women and couples, facilitates group journeys, and leads in-person retreats.

Her latest program, Creative Fire starts January 9th.

Website: www.whitneyullom.com

Connect with Whitney on IG (@whitneyullom)

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Whitney is also going to be a guest workshop facilitator at the UNDONE retreat, doors closing Jan 8

Connect with Nicole on IG (@nicolepasveer)

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00:00 Introduction: The Spiritual Desert

00:19 Meet Nicole Pasveer

01:07 Guest Introduction: Whitney's Journey

01:44 Whitney's Story: From Acting to Awakening

05:21 The Turning Point: A Psychic's Revelation

08:53 Rediscovering Intimacy: The Epic Lovers Class

11:33 Nicole's Parallel Journey: Societal Expectations vs. True Fulfillment

16:31 The Soul's Hunger: Addressing Spiritual and Emotional Needs

20:04 Entrepreneurship: From Personal Transformation to Business

24:43 The Ripple Effect: How Self-Love Transforms All Aspects of Life

32:17 Creative Fire: Igniting Passion and Purpose

41:56 Embracing Inner Wisdom

42:28 Navigating Trauma Responses

43:20 Expressing Boundaries and Needs

43:43 The Power of Somatic Work

44:52 Healthy Boundaries vs. Misconceptions

47:41 Purposeful Communication in Business

48:30 Heart-Centered Entrepreneurship

51:58 The Importance of Self-Resourcing

57:54 Unlearning and Reclaiming Needs

01:06:56 The Role of Anger in Healing

01:10:45 The Value of Activation in Coaching

01:17:02 Integrating Fire and Softness

01:19:43 Conclusion and Offerings

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REWILD + FREE
Stirring good kinda trouble. This is a podcast where conscious entrepreneurship and personal exploration meets decolonization, nervous system healing, and cyclical living
What happens when you stop trying to fit neatly into this world?
When you unbecome everything you were told to be?
When you breathe nuance into a world obsessed with the binary?
When you stop chasing linear success and remember the power of the cyclical, the seasonal—the way we were always meant to be?

This is REWILD + FREE.

Not a blueprint. But an invitation.

To unmask. To unravel. To break free—not just from survival, but from the deep conditioning that keeps us disconnected. From each other. From our bodies. From the earth.

In all facets of life—motherhood, womanhood, conscious business, spirituality.

These are the conversations social media can’t hold space for. The ones that don’t fit into bite-sized posts or neat little soundbites. The messy, layered, deeply human ones. A mix of raw personal musings and soul-stirring interviews with those willing to go beyond the surface.

I’m Nicole Pasveer—mother, truth-seeker, activator. Someone who spent years untangling herself from stories that were never hers to hold. I’ve done the people-pleasing, the perfectionism, the fitting into boxes too small for me. I know what it feels like to wake up and realize—this isn’t who I am.

So here we are.

Stirring good kinda trouble.

Having the conversations that matter—healing, liberation, decolonization, reimagining how we live, work, and lead. Not with easy answers, but with big, bold, sometimes impossible-to-answer questions.

Where nuance, reclamation, and reimagination collide

Let’s rewild and remember. Together.

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