Episode 10

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23rd May 2023

When We Heal Motherhood, We Heal the World, with Alexis Stearns

Are you just a character in someone else’s book or are you holding the pen and writing your own story?  

In this episode,  I'm joined by Alexis (@intentionally.alexis) and we chat about all things healing in motherhood,  including self-worth, spiritual bypassing, and radical responsibility to finally get out of that victim mindset. 

Alexis Stearns is a healing mentor for moms who are ready to heal their birth trauma, break generational cycles, and enjoy motherhood. 

 This episode is a juicy one, we touch on sooo many themes including: 

  • Creating and cultivating rhythm and ritual in your life 
  • Unsubscribing from the patriarchal and masculine expectation to find balance 
  • Looking at balance as a myth, instead striving for presence as our goal 
  • Falling victim to this idea of destination  addiction  
  • Who you are before the world got to you 
  • Recognizing when your 'shoulding' on yourself 
  • The ripple effect our healing has on future generations 
  • How fitting in and belonging might lead to self abandonment 
  • Taking radical responsibility in healing, looking at where you’re being the victim in your life 
  • Importance of self worth in motherhood 

Want to work with Alexis?
Her signature course, Healing Birth Within is available here
Her FREE course to get started with healing can be found here
And on Wednesday May 24/23, Alexis is hosting a Inner Child Healing Workshop, details can be found here

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REWILD + FREE
Stirring good kinda trouble. This is a podcast where conscious entrepreneurship and personal exploration meets decolonization, nervous system healing, and cyclical living
What happens when you stop trying to fit neatly into this world?
When you unbecome everything you were told to be?
When you breathe nuance into a world obsessed with the binary?
When you stop chasing linear success and remember the power of the cyclical, the seasonal—the way we were always meant to be?

This is REWILD + FREE.

Not a blueprint. But an invitation.

To unmask. To unravel. To break free—not just from survival, but from the deep conditioning that keeps us disconnected. From each other. From our bodies. From the earth.

In all facets of life—motherhood, womanhood, conscious business, spirituality.

These are the conversations social media can’t hold space for. The ones that don’t fit into bite-sized posts or neat little soundbites. The messy, layered, deeply human ones. A mix of raw personal musings and soul-stirring interviews with those willing to go beyond the surface.

I’m Nicole Pasveer—mother, truth-seeker, activator. Someone who spent years untangling herself from stories that were never hers to hold. I’ve done the people-pleasing, the perfectionism, the fitting into boxes too small for me. I know what it feels like to wake up and realize—this isn’t who I am.

So here we are.

Stirring good kinda trouble.

Having the conversations that matter—healing, liberation, decolonization, reimagining how we live, work, and lead. Not with easy answers, but with big, bold, sometimes impossible-to-answer questions.

Where nuance, reclamation, and reimagination collide

Let’s rewild and remember. Together.

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